Addiction:     
Addictive behavior and addiction have a variety of origins. They can stem from family history, mental health diagnoses, peer pressure, use of highly addictive substances, and others. An environmental fact that is often linked to addictive behaviors is trauma. An underlying traumatic incident in someone’s life may lead to behaviors associated with addiction. Trauma can occur in the form of physical, verbal, or sexual abuse, witnessing violence, family of origin distress, emotional neglect, academic failures and/or disabilities, and more.
 
 Trauma and Addiction:
Research has shown a correlation between trauma, especially trauma that occurs in childhood, and addictive behaviors. When someone experiences a traumatic event(s) the brain does not fully process the event or store it effectively causing the feelings associated with that trauma to manifest in maladaptive ways. Oftentimes, that person will try to keep those feelings and emotions in check by self-medicating through alcohol, drugs, sex or other acting-out behaviors. These substances can dull the painful feelings and allows the person to feel better in the short term. Unfortunately, as tolerance builds and the negative consequences of using drugs and alcohol or other addictive behaviors increase people will take greater risks and/or progress their negative behaviors. At that point, it’s when the pain of using the drug of choice becomes worse than the pain of the trauma that people will begin to seek help.
 
​ Prevention and Getting Help:
There are effective ways to prevent addiction when the risk factors are identified. Though there is no guarantee that preventative measures will work, being cognizant of potential problems is important. Dealing with emotions associated with a trauma that occurs at any age is a critical step. Implementing useful tools and strategies to cope with trauma is a great first step. As the saying goes, “An ounce of prevention is worth a pound of intervention.” Seeking professional help as soon as trauma is identified will go a very long way. When unable to manage these feelings, qualified professional help should be utilized. Trained mental health professionals utilize proven therapeutic interventions to cope with extremely difficult circumstances. The team at Illinois Healing Center for Trauma and Addiction has the experience and expertise needed to help in recovery and long-lasting good mental health. 

​Addiction     
Addiction affects people in many ways. It can slowly grab a hold of the important things in life and push those aside. Feeding the addiction takes over the top of the priority list, while everything else takes a back seat. Over time, addiction affects various and many aspects of one’s life, eventually becoming the only thing that defines who they are. This article will discuss 4 ways that addiction can affect your life.

4 Ways Addiction Can Affect Your Life
Addiction affects the addicted person and those closest to them lives in profound ways. Often, one does not even realize addiction’s toll on everyday things. Here are 4 important, but not all, ways that addiction can affect your life.

1. Health – physical and mental. The first and most important way addiction can affect your life is your health. The list is endless in how your health can be impacted. Alcohol causes liver disease and can cause damage to other internal organs. You can overdose on drugs and alcohol. Accidental overdose is a prominent factor in many addiction-related deaths. Sex Addiction creates a high risk for sexually transmitted diseases while Porn Addiction can induce erectile or other sexual dysfunctions. Mental health is also greatly affected. You may be depressed from the addiction itself or other factors in your life. The addiction often provides a temporary solution to the symptoms of your mental distress but does not make them disappear. Additionally, the chemicals ingested may be adding to your depression or other mental health conditions.
2. Loved ones. Relationships with friends and family are heavily impacted by addiction. Trust is lost, bonds are broken, and an overwhelming amount of stress is created for those around you. People that care about your health and wellness now must endure the most of your addiction from the outside looking in. They become caretakers and always carry the burden of worry for your safety. The opposite effect can also be true. Your friends and family may just check out to protect themselves and relieve themselves of this enormous issue.
3. Career and Livelihood. Addiction costs money. The purchase of drugs, alcohol, or any other addictive substances will zap your bank account of your savings. Your job or career is also in jeopardy. Addiction hampers you from effectively carrying out your job responsibilities. Your prospect of obtaining a new job is limited, and you may be fired for inferior performance, tardiness, or absenteeism. Your addiction becomes who you are in a sense. If you are not able to address the problem, your livelihood is at stake.
4. Passion and Hobbies. Imagine that you are an avid reader. You love books and read several each month. Now imagine that your addiction gets in the way of this. You have just lost or at least put on hold the thing you love. If you carry this one example over to all your hobbies or the things you are passionate about, you see that the addiction changes who you are fundamentally.

 
Help is Needed and Available
Addiction is something that people need support overcoming. As seen above, it can and will overtake your life in about every area. The positive thing to remember is that help is available. Proper treatment from trained professionals can break the hold of addiction through therapy and other forms of intervention. It is up to you to recognize that you need help, and then take the first step in seeking it out. The experienced team at Illinois Healing Center for Trauma and Addiction is available to start the healing process. Click here to contact IHCTA today.
 
​ Health and Wellness
Addiction affects your life in ways that are hard to imagine. Things can get out of control quickly. The positive news is that treatment and help are available. Your goal should be overall good health and wellness. Get help to achieve this goal today. Once you start on this journey, the things that were affected in a bad way will begin to heal.

 Healing from Addiction       

Addiction is an all-consuming disease that affects each aspect of someone’s life. It takes over control of decision making, but more importantly risks the long-term health of those afflicted. Having an addiction is lonely and without professional help and/or peer support, can be virtually impossible to control. Getting help or treatment for addiction should be viewed as a process. You cannot go to a doctor for a prescription, and all is good. In fact, addiction treatment is a series of steps and a process that is ongoing. This article will outline that process.
 
5 Steps in the Process of Healing From Addiction

There are many different programs with a varying number of steps or stages to help addiction. The programs or theories have similarities and differences. This article will focus on DiClemente & Prochaska's Stages of Change. DiClemente and Prochaska were researchers who developed these stages in the early 1980s. It’s officially called the Transtheoretical Model and is a useful tool in the treatment of addiction.

1. This stage is oftentimes called Pre-Contemplation. The ‘Pre’ part of this step describes that the addicted person is not at a place where they are ready to get help or realize that they even need help. This step is part of an active addiction but must take place before there is real treatment.
2. The second phase in the process changes from Pre-Contemplation to Contemplation. In this step, the person addicted starts to think about their addiction as an issue but may not be quite ready to seek out professional help. They are willing to discuss it more. However, the resistance to others addressing their concerns will likely still be heightened but there is a part of their adaptive resource that is listening. That adaptive resource will allow the next phase to begin.
3. Step 3 is frequently called the Preparation Stage. During this stage, there is a real acceptance that there is a problem. They have come to terms with the fact that they have a disease and want to rid themselves of it. This is no easy task and often results in the one-step forward, two-step back pattern.
4. The fourth step is the Action step. It is called that because the addicted person is seeking out help. They are finally taking action against their disease. Professional help and/or engagement in 12 Step Meetings are sought out during this step and is a critical component in healing.
5. Step 5 is Maintenance. Sounds easy, but it is commonly the most difficult. This step includes lifestyle changes, ongoing therapy, or group sessions, and building the confidence and tools it takes to not relapse. This step can take years or even a lifetime to complete, as urges can pop up for assorted reasons at various times.

Recovering from Addiction is not Easy

Getting through these five steps in healing from an addiction is not easy, and the timeline is different for everyone. Knowing about the steps is just a guideline to help you understand the process a loved one struggling with addiction will go through, but it is not linear. The important thing to remember is that there is help available during each phase.
 
 Get Help Today

Recovering from addiction requires professional intervention. Trained and experienced therapists have the tools needed to effectively stop addiction and create a roadmap for ongoing sobriety and health. The experienced team at Illinois Healing Center for Trauma and Addiction have expertise in the diagnosis and treatment of a wide range of addictions. The team prides itself on having a compassionate, data-driven approach to working with those who suffer from this debilitating disease. For more information, and to get help today, visit the IHC website by clicking here today.

Addiction     
Addiction is a common issue that can affect anyone. There is a wide range of definitions for addiction, but it is a disease. This disease causes changes in a person’s brain that lead to the compulsive use or need to use a substance or some other outside variable such as gambling or sex. This article will list out some of the particularly important reasons why help should be sought for an addiction.
 
 5 Reasons to Get Help for an Addiction
Addiction affects people in diverse ways, however, when there is an addiction there are symptoms and characteristics that are universal to anyone suffering. Without help, addiction will alter decision-making, and be the central point of someone’s life. Here are 5 reasons to get help.

1. Loss of Life- Severe addictions can cause death. Drinking or using other substances to a level of addiction will eventually cause a body to shut down. Addiction can be a fatal disease, but it is treatable.
2. Health- Bottom line is that addictive behavior is terrible for someone’s health. Substance use damages organs and other physiological functions, while other addictions may lead to just a general lapse in taking care of oneself.
3. Relationship Damage- Addictions cause people to focus only on what they are addicted to. Relationships suffer whether it is a spouse, child, or friend. Loved ones want to help, but the amount of strain it causes can be very detrimental.
4. Financial Ruin- Addiction will take over someone’s finances. This could mean the loss of a job, or significant money going towards feeding the addiction.
5. Out of Control – Addiction can and will cause powerlessness and unmanageability creating a loss of control with all aspects of their life. Satisfying the addiction becomes the only thing that matters.

 Help is Available
Addiction can feel very lonely and insurmountable, but it does not have to. Help is available. The experienced team at Illinois Healing Center for Trauma and Addiction have expertise in the diagnosis and treatment of a wide range of addictions. The team prides itself on having a compassionate, data-driven approach to working with those who suffer from this debilitating disease. For more information, and to get help today, visit the IHC website at https://www.ilhealingcenter.com/.

On Your Way to Being Healthy Again
As discussed, addiction is a disease that needs to be treated just like any other illness of the body. Oftentimes, making that first phone call or inquiry for help can be daunting. That should not get in the way of getting help and getting healthy. Understanding the need for therapy and treatment is the first step in achieving long-lasting health.

Understanding Shame’s Impact in the Cycle of Addiction
Yankie Greenberger, LCSW CSAT
Written in memory of Rabbi Dr Abraham J Twerksi 
 
“Why should I? What’s the point? I’m not capable of doing this. I am just gonna let people down, hurt people, feel terrible about myself. It’s just not worth it.”
The cycle of addiction is profound and complex. It is a cycle that contains multiple micro-cycles that spiral and lead to deeper more self-sabotaging micro-cycles. Of all these micro-cycles none is more damaging to the addict than the Guilt/Shame Cycle. It is this cycle that continues the addictive thinking which ultimately leads to the addictive behavior. 
To find resolution for the Guilt/Shame Cycle we need to first understand the difference between guilt and shame. Second, we’ll need to search for the origins and the preceding beliefs and thoughts of the addict to begin the reduction of this self-destructive cycle and begin a renewed healthier recovery-oriented way of thinking.  Guilt is for something a person does whereas shame is for the way a person believes he/she is. As Rabbi Dr. Abraham Twerski points out, “Guilt can lead to corrective action. Shame leads to resignation and despair.” The difference between an addict and a non-addict (or an addict living a life of recovery) is non-addicts often use their guilt as a motivating tool to apologize, make amends, or ask for forgiveness. Active addicts use their guilt as evidence that they are the negative belief they have of themselves which in turn leads to the despairing shame. You can say, in simpler terms, that where others develop and feel guilt addicts develop and feel shame.
Why? Why is that some people feel guilt while others feel shame? There is a lengthier nature versus nurture discussion that can be explored. However, in efforts to be brief, let’s approach this from a program of recovery (12-Step Program) and psychotherapy approach.
The addiction cycle begins with a flawed and distorted core belief about oneself. “I’m not good enough. I’m worthless. I’m damaged. Etc.” This isn’t necessarily unique thinking to addicts. In fact, we all have distorted thinking, some more overwhelming than others. Where the cyclical thinking differs is the addict does not believe that there’s hope, reprieve or comfort AND they found a way to alleviate the intense feelings of shame due to their cognitive distortion about their essence. This may be through alcohol, marijuana, opioids, benzodiazepines and/or other prescription medications, gambling, food, and other compulsive acting out behaviors. Rabbi Dr. Twerski gave an analogy of someone who’s car starts to have mechanical issues. He takes the car to the mechanic to be assessed and fix the part that has become defective. If later, another part breaks followed by another followed by another he may conclude, rightfully, that there’s no point in putting more money in to the car. This is the addictive shame-filled thinking of an addict. While apologies, amends and forgiveness may conquer the guilt it will not take away the shame because the shame is so incredibly internal and a representation of who the person believes he is. These corrective behaviors will not change the defectiveness the addict believes about himself. Anyone who has experienced the life of an addict can attest to the remorse, tears, promises, apologies that the addict feels. Those are truthful expressions of guilt. Yet, it does not undo the shame the addict feels about who he is. The 12-Step program teaches and practices methods of rectifying negative behaviors while accepting the disease of addiction as being the catalyst of their cognitive distortions and not the true definition of who they are as a person. Once acceptance has been achieved and the willingness to integrate the program of character redefinition along with abstinence the addict will learn how to transform shame into productive guilt. The guilt allows for full responsibility of behavior while leaving the shame behind. Recovering addicts will make a “searching and fearless moral inventory”, own their destructive behavior, make proper and direct amends, learn to immediately resolve resentments with proper communication and continuously spiritually connect with G-d and others. This creates the cycle of recovery.
Therapy, concurrently or otherwise, allows for exploration of the origins of the cycle of addictive thinking and its distorted negative self-determination. Skilled clinicians help pinpoint the development of the unhealthy and unproductive schema in which years of misappropriated beliefs followed. The therapeutic journey then embarks in reinterpreting past events and experiences which have fostered, bolstered, and promoted the integration of shameful beliefs about oneself. Once the door of possibility to the idea that we have unjustly mistreated ourselves with false beliefs about ourselves, we are able to understand a plethora of false truths for what else those experiences may have been. We turn “I’m worthless” into “I’m worthy.” We turn “I’m not good” into “I’m good enough.”
Our job as parents, is to evoke and instill the positive beliefs and eliminate the cataloging statements of shame. It’s our responsibility to promote accountability of behavior without shaming the essence of the developing child. Shame is not reserved for addicts and addiction only. Shame holds, or at the very least slows, a young person’s confidence and ability to take healthy risks. Being able to take risks and chances allows for proper and effective achievement of their fullest capacity and potential. Let us laud the accomplishments and achievements of others while carefully not simultaneously shaming our children. When our children make mistakes, let’s focus of the mistaken behavior not on the “bad” character of the child. Our focus when faced with disappointing mistakes of the child needs to be on learning from the ordeal and encouraging them to make the better choice when faced with a similar opportunity in the future.
We are not our negative or unwanted behavior. We are good because G-d  is good. Progress. Not perfection.